A young girl, probably around six or seven, sat on top of the Australian Women’s Weekly flat stack on the weekend clumsily flipping through a copy of New Idea, licking her fingers before turning each page. The girl’s mother was standing across from her asking when she will be ready to get on with the shopping. The girl told her mother she was busy.
The mother could see the girl was disrupting a busy part of our newsagency. Her look to me was one of what can I do?
I am sure that this scene plays out every day in newsagencies and other retail businesses. It is a scene of poor parenting in my view – the child is disrespectful of my property, disrespectful of fellow shoppers, rude to her mother and being a brat overall.
I didn’t say anything because the shop was busy, I was serving and I didn’t want to make a scene. In hindsight, I should have at least left the counter and asked the girl to get off my stock. Actually, the mother should have done this. Indeed, she should probably have stopped the girl reading New Idea. I have nothing agaist the title but do feel it is not ideal for a six or seven year old.
While the whole scene played out in a few minutes, it weighed on my mind for a couple of days. I wonder if parents today do let kids get away with more today than previous generations. The mum was clearly controlled by the child. Back when I was a kid…
At least the mother was there. We are regularly used as a creche by parents who have to stand in line at the Post office opposite or mums who go next door to have their nails done.